Tips for Preparing a Eulogy
Writing a few fond memories or describing special moments shared with a loved one is often times a lot easier said than done. In times of grief, communicating emotions and memories can be a very difficult task. However, with a little assistance and organization, a eulogy can be an extremely rewarding, honorable and poignant tribute to a loved one. Here are a few helpful guidelines:
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What one adjective would you use to describe him/her?
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Did he/she have any particular loves or hobbies?
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Did he/she enjoy any particular songs, poems or performers?
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If you could name one value or lesson he/she most wanted to teach the next generation, what would it be?
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What one achievement or accomplishment would make his/her eyes light up when you mentioned it?
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What where some of his/her favorite sayings?
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Was there a cause or movement that he/she felt deeply about and supported with his/her time and resources?
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If he/she could have me (or you) say one thing during the funeral, what do you think it would be?
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Why do you think this world is a little different because of him/her?
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